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Feeling a Little Lighter (Literally)
Surgery 1 is done, recovery is underway, and for the first time in a while, I can genuinely say I’m feeling a little lighter.
timandcloe
1 day ago7 min read


Ta Ta For Now, Boobs… Thanks For The Mammaries
Saying goodbye to my boobs with laughter, gratitude, a few tears, and the reminder that this is just one small blip in a much bigger story.
timandcloe
Aug 18 min read


Cycle Six: WAFSS
Cycle Six was a full-body mutiny, a WAFSS of epic proportions, but after four months of chemo chaos, I finally got the news I'd been desperately hoping for.
timandcloe
Jul 206 min read


Phase One: Still Standing
This cycle I’ve been knocked around in my fight against cancer, but I hope to finish Phase One a little bruised, a little changed, but still standing.
timandcloe
Jul 39 min read


I’ve Been Hiding Something From Tim...
I’ve been hiding something from Tim this week - nothing scandalous, just a mildly suspicious level of phone secrecy I’m hoping he hasn’t noticed...
timandcloe
Jun 236 min read


Donald and The "Attempted" Birthday Boycott
An unexpectedly heartwarming story involving scissors, tumours and cereal-box-based athletics...
timandcloe
Jun 148 min read


We Have a Plan. We Also Bought a Puppy.
From scanxiety and surgery plans to tramp stamps and tiny chaos on four legs, Cycle 4 delivers a full rollercoaster of ups and downs.
timandcloe
May 308 min read


The Chemo Glow-Up Nobody Warned Me About
Chemo is objectively horrific - but somewhere between the steroid highs, the disappearing body hair, and accidentally becoming a wellness person, I found a few bizarre little wins hiding in plain sight.
timandcloe
May 249 min read


So What’s Actually Going On in There?
Between the medical jargon, treatment plans, and unanswered questions, I’m trying to translate a breast cancer diagnosis into something that actually sounds like my life - not just a report.
timandcloe
May 146 min read


Tiny Glimmers in a Bit of a Shitstorm
Turns out even in the middle of a complete shitstorm, tiny glimmers still show up anyway.
timandcloe
May 116 min read


Pity Party for One Please
Just me and my solo pity party - brief appearance, committed wallow, then my highly reliable exit strategy by 9pm.
timandcloe
Apr 268 min read


Surrounded by Comedians...
Even mid-chemo, I’m apparently surrounded by people who think they’re hilarious - and somehow, that’s what’s keeping me going.
timandcloe
Apr 227 min read


A Temporary Battle Scar
Today, I let go of my hair - and in its place, a visible, temporary battle scar from cancer.
timandcloe
Apr 154 min read


Negotiating with My Hairline
Hair is a funny thing. For most of my life, I’ve been trying to get rid of it. And now, I’m watching it fall out in handfuls, wishing I could keep even a little of it where it counts.
timandcloe
Apr 85 min read


The Real Me: A Choose-Your-Own-Adventure Story
What starts as polished, calm, and seemingly put-together quickly unravels into chaos, honesty, and messy reality. From shattering bathroom disasters to fleeting glimpses of normal, I navigate cancer, parenting, and life with all its unpredictability. Some days I win. Some days my guts go rogue. And honestly? That’s enough.
timandcloe
Apr 25 min read


0 Stars. Would Not Recommend.
One week post-first chemo cycle: exhaustion, battery-flavoured mouth, and the odd upright nap on the couch
timandcloe
Mar 274 min read


Just Another Friday (Chemotherapy Edition)
First chemo day — treated like any other Friday: tiny routines, awkward normality, and a smidge of winging it.
timandcloe
Mar 224 min read


Overpacked, Overprepared, and Mentally Crapping It
I read somewhere online that when preparing your “chemo bag”, there’s one rule above all: don’t use a favourite.
timandcloe
Mar 195 min read


Dear Diary: Am I an ugly crier?
I ugly cried at parent–teacher interviews — and it had nothing to do with Harry. This week, everything broke… including me.
timandcloe
Mar 173 min read


It Takes a Village (and Apparently Breast-Shaped Cookies)
"They say it takes a village - but I didn't expect mine to include chocolate nipples, lemon meringue tarts, and my brother threatening a hamper of sorts." Support, care, and love come in many forms, and this week Tim, Harry, and I have had the absolute privilege of receiving almost all of them. Well…kind of. One form we narrowly avoided was the "adult store hamper" my wonderful brother threatened to send me because, apparently, even in dark times, people still need a bit of f
timandcloe
Mar 144 min read
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